I did some thinking. (My friends would say, “Oh, no, not again.”

I want choice. I want options such as:
- . . . she (he, they) . . . .
- People . . . they . . . them . . . their . . . .
- Writers . . . their . . . .
- Heroes . . . their stories . . . .
with singular their being an option but not the only option.